And personally BDSM doesn’t always equal sex. That it’s completely consensual and there is nothing inherently wrong with someone for being into or enjoying such activities. What do you wish the public knew about BDSM? One time I was having a conversation with my older sister and accidentally mentioned my fetlife account, but she didn’t seem phased by it at all and just kept the conversation going.Ĩ. Have you ever ‘come out’ about being kinky to friends or family? One time at a grocery store a woman called out to me from a few few away, walked up, gently touched my collar and said “that’s cool” with this smirk, and then walked away.ħ. Has anyone ever guessed that you were kinky before they knew you? Nope! Partially because a lot of dungeons and events like it are 21 up, but also because I don’t know anyone in the community in my area and have yet to work up the courage to go to a munch or such alone.Ħ. Have you ever been to a BDSM event (like a munch or a dungeon)? And without the kink community I wouldn’t have met several of my current close friends who have helped me in their own ways!ĥ.
I feel like it’s given me more confidence, both sexually and just in my general life. But it did help me discover that I was very much into a less vanilla life! Probably not the most appropriate book for a preteen to be reading. I discovered BDSM through reading, specifically a book called ‘My Nerdy Valentine’. How long have you known that you were kinky?
I am a full fledged submissive! Tried my hand at domming once and it was the least comfortable I’ve ever felt, sub life forever!Ģ. If you chose to answer these questions yourself on either a blog or video I’d love to check it out! If you own something that is in my stream and do not want it shared, please let me know and I will remove it.So, I thought I’d start with a post that allowed you to get to know me a bit more! These questions were chosen as the top 10 from a long list (approximately 80!) created by Phoen and me. I don't own any of the photos in my stream and mostly repost what I've already found on Tumblr. Thank you for taking the time to read my long message here, and wishing you luck in finding all that turns you on.
Feel free to send me post that you think I might enjoy. Remember I am lesbian, so messages from men being sexually forward (telling me you're going to fuck me) or disrespectful will be ignored. I invite respectful communications and will converse with just about anyone about anything, so feel free to send me a message. I have one myself, long in the front and short and extremely stacked in the back, and love to see other girls with similar cuts and styles. I also have a strong fetish for extreme bob haircuts. I also love to see armbinders on other girls and would love to own and experience a tight leather armbinder, laced tight and locked with locking straps, for myself some day. It's kind of like bondage for the vanilla.
My top fetishes include ballet boots, bondage helmets, tight lacing corsets, reverse-prayer ties, gags and harnesses, chastity belts and bras, steel bondage, tight fitting knee-high boots, anything that locks on the wearer, and especially pants, jeans, slacks and blouses that snap, button or zip up in the back. I also enjoy viewng erotic, stringent and predicament bondage, and have a large and growing list of fetishes. I truely enjoy tease, edging and denial of orgasm. I do have the keys, but also the will power to not unlock for a specified amount of time. Wearing them continuously for almost 14 years, I have become dependent on them to feel confident and comfortable when out of the house or in large crowds, and never leave my home without being securely locked in both. I am self-locked in a modified Access Denied chastity belt that I wear 24/7 for months at a time, along with a handmade steel chastity bra. I am a 40 year old lesbian woman from Indiana in the USA. A collection of things that really turn me on! 18+ and definitely Not Safe For Work!